Ho's over Bro's Dan 25 June, 2008 - 10:30 AM

Ho's over Bro's

Have you ever heard the saying "Ho's over Bro's"? Or as Cindy Lu puts it "Are you a Chick's Chick or a Dick's Chick?" I am pretty sure I speak for all women scorned when I say its sucks to be cheated on. Yep, it bites the big time! I know I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. So why do we still try to steel the hearts of taken men?

A girlfriend of mine recently advised that she had been having an affair with a married man, one nearly twice her age. He has now left his wife and kids for her and they are living happily ever after (on the other side of the world). She is incredibly happy. I have never seen her like this before in my life. Previously she was with a not so nice man who said lots of not so nice things to her. So I have wanted nothing more than to see her happily in love with a nice man that treats her how she should be treated.

I should be happy for her, yes? So how come I can't help but think that we (as women) should stick together and if a man is taken in any way, shape or form, we leave him where we found him -probably boozing it up with his mates. It's hard enough to find the perfect man, not to then have to worry about whether we will lose him to the first available, good looking woman who glances his way. It's easy enough to stray without the added assistance of our fellow gender being prepared to take what is not really on offer.

Ok, ok... I know it takes 2 to tango. I am not suggesting that it doesn't. And I'm sure there were problems or issues on a greater scale, that I don't know about that he was having with his marriage, but does that make it right?

Is it just me who thinks a married man or any attached man is off limits, even if we are sure he is our Price Charming? My girlfriend honestly thinks this man is her Prince Charming. And she sure does seem to have the glow - that 'woman in love' glow... But is it really worth it all? The secrecy, the speculations, the angry ex, the confused children... Can one man really be worth all that?

I am happy she is happy... Really happy that she is happy, but I can't condone what she (or he) did.

 

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• jane says

  If there's a ring on their finger male or female they are off limits. It's the ultimate betrayal. I don't understand people who can forgive their partners for cheating. Maybe I'm just the jealous kind.

  Posted Wednesday 25 June, 2008 12:16 PM
• Murf says

  Has your mate never heard of karma? If he's done it once he will definitely do it again, people like this do not change.

  Posted Wednesday 25 June, 2008 12:18 PM
• Neil says

  Just looking at this hot girl in our office now and if it wasn't for this ring on my finger I'd be like a rat up a drainpipe

  Posted Wednesday 25 June, 2008 12:19 PM
• Hefzie says

  Hey Chris we have to get our hand on the gravy chips

  Posted Friday 27 June, 2008 8:16 AM
• melgal says

  If there is a ring on a finger, male or female.... They are OFF LIMITS! Does she really think its ok to go destroying another persons life (or 2 peoples lives). She needs a reallity check. Oh and hasn't she heard the old saying?? Once a cheater always a cheater. He'll do it to her eventually.

  Posted Friday 25 July, 2008 12:28 PM

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